You know what would be helpful? A #transgender coach. Someone who has been through this and transitioned for awhile just to help with the practical issues of transitioning.
Like I am mostly past the panic and existential dread part. I know the steps that are required. But I need someone to just hold my hand and help with learning to live as a woman.
I need help with, like, finding a style that will work for me. Learning makeup. Feminine mannerisms. Handling transition at work. Especially for us older #trans folks, we have a lot of complexity in our transition that a 20 year old might not.
Basically all the stuff that we should have learned as little girls we now need to learn now as 40 somethings and complexity demands we learn it as fast as possible.
Like I 100% realize I can’t do it alone and I am going to need help. Does this exist?